5,600 lone Israeli soldiers now have a home away from homeBy Mason White 3:04 PM May 22, 2014
|Lone soldiers at their home away from home|
By: Roman Mokrinsky
(Scroll down for video) Thousands of lone Israeli soldiers now have the opportunity to spend their free time in a home away from home, the Tazpit News Agency reported.
There are some 5,600 lone soldiers currently serving in the IDF. 60 percent of them are new immigrants.
Being a lone soldier is not an easy task. Faced with the challenges every soldier contends with, lone soldiers have no family for support, no home for refuge when on furlough and are forced to cope on their own.
Who can they turn to for emotional support? Who will they spend the holidays with? Who will cheer for them when they are sworn in at the end of basic training? The Michael Levin Lone Soldier Center was established 5 years ago, with the objective of providing a home for these dedicated fighters.
The center provides a home and support to the 5,000 soldiers, who cannot go home to their parents. Five years ago, Jared White, Josh Flaster, and Tziki Aud, decided to launch an organization that would provide lone soldiers with a place were they can turn to, offering guidance and support.
White and Flaster were themselves lone soldiers. “Michael Levin was a paratrooper serving in the 890th Battalion and was killed in the Second Lebanon War. I knew him. He was adopted by Tziki Aud. When we thought of the new organization we thought about a dedication. Therefore, the center is named after Mickey. He was part of the lone soldier’s family,” explains White.
White, 29, is a resident of Jerusalem, and is studying to become a teacher. After making aliyah, he enlisted in the IDF and served as a commander in the paratroopers. He currently heads the Jerusalem branch.
“During our first staff meeting everyone took out the money they had in their pockets. We had a total of 320 shekel. Today we are a nationwide organization,” Jared said proudly. The Center has branches in Jerusalem, Tel Aviv, Be’er Sheva, and Haifa, with 300 volunteers who help run them. Almost all of the organization’s members are former lone soldiers.
“A lone soldier doesn’t have the support of parents or family who can help with many issues. When you have family things like food and laundry are taken for granted. It’s hard to leave home. It’s even more difficult when you are a lone soldier facing the challenges of military service together with the regular demands of life. For the first time, you are on your own and have to manage,” points out veteran volunteer Michael Shapira.
Michael is a 28-year-old medical student at Hebrew University. He comes from California, and served in the Nahal Brigade. “I personally had it comparatively easy, because I lived on Kibbutz Maoz Chaim. Sometimes, it was really hard to come home on Friday, from a base far away when I had things to take care of. When I got back everything was closed and I didn’t have a chance to do anything. I managed because I had a family that could help me. Many lone soldiers don’t have that kind of support. Therefore, it is very important that the organization serve as a support net for them,” Michael said.
“I began volunteering for the organization four years ago. I love the work and really believe in what we do. I constantly see soldiers entering their new life and we help them directly,” Dana Yatsiv, who helps with the accounting and budgeting, said.
Emigrating from California seven years ago, she is a business management and literature student at Hebrew University. “When I was a lone soldier I had to take care of everything on my own. I had a hard time with military bureaucracy. I didn’t know who to speak with. You can easily get lost in the IDF system and it can be very stressful. Our organization has advisors who can help the soldiers and speak with their commanders. There are people who can really fight for them,” Dana added.
The center has three divisions, consultation, moving and social activities. The organization works with the IDF, which helps fund its activities. White himself holds staff meetings with IDF officers.
The consultation department offers pre-enlistment consultation, offering guidance on military service, the various units and the unique status of the lone soldier. The department further assists soldiers who have been discharged to move smoothly into civilian life, helping them to decide what to do next.
The social activities department offers monthly based activities such as a BBQ, which usually hosts some 600 participants, movie night, trips, Shabbat, holiday and more.
“The most unique undertaking we have had was during Operation Pillar of Defense,” said White. “Many soldiers were mobilized from their bases to the field and did not have time to take warm clothing with them. Some of the lone soldiers I spoke to complained of the cold. We collected $24,000 in 24 hours and dispersed winter gear to the soldiers in the field, and this under a barrage of rockets,” he recalled.
“We had one soldier from Australia, who broke his leg while in the army. He came to us for money to buy food. He now gets food coupons from us. Furthermore, I invited him to bring his Playstation to the center. The center is like a home for everyone. Our objective is to show the lone soldiers that we are like family here,” White explained.
“As former lone soldiers we understand what they are going through and know the job. We are always ready to meet them or to be on the phone to help. Financial support of the soldiers is important, but our organization offers a family for the lone soldiers as well. We offer them a supportive environment. That is what they are really lacking, and we do all we can to give it to them,” concluded Shapira.
At the Michael Levin Lone Soldier Centers, every load of laundry, every hot meal, every discussion about the stresses of army life is strengthening the Israeli Defense Forces and the State of Israel.