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By: Michelle Parker WorldWideWeirdNews.com
When two people get together and share their lives on an intimate level, there will be times when emotions get in the way and one feels hurt.
If the love for one another is strong then it is worth taking time to repair any damage that may have been done.
First, take a moment to congratulate yourself on the fact that you have a woman in your life, who you love and care for so much that you want to win her back.
There are so many people out there that are looking for that special someone to share their life with, but they haven't yet found “the one.”
Remember that the woman in your life loves you and cares enough for you to get hurt or insulted by what you said or did.
When a woman gets upset over something you said or did, you might be confused as to what caused her to get angry to such an extreme.
You have to remember that you may not be at fault. Sometimes, what you said or did, triggered a memory of something unpleasant that happened to her during her childhood or with a previous relationship.
Since you are dealing with human emotions, you have to respond with emotions.
Buy her something special. Don’t just grab a bunch of flowers or candy to bring home. Instead, think of something that your girlfriend likes.
It doesn’t have to be expensive. You can buy her favorite meal a nearby restaurant, or her favorite milkshake or ice cream.
If your girlfriend feels that you thought about her and you cared enough to go out to buy something that you know she loves, she will be quicker to forgive you and move on.
Once you get home, try not to bring up the argument until she is ready to talk.
Listen to her with an open mind and without interrupting her.
Don’t get offended. While her reasoning for being upset may seem irrational to you, remember that this is how she feels. This is about how she perceives what you have done.
Make sure that she feels that you understood her feelings. This is done by repeating what she said back to her.
If you feel misunderstood, wait until things get better between you to bring it up.
Look at the bigger picture and let things go.
If the woman really means so much to you and your life will not be the same without her then it might be well worth it to apologize even when you know that you were right.